YOU ARE NOT ALONE

"Breast cancer affects both women and men, but early detection saves lives. When breast cancer is found before it spreads, the 5-year survival rate is greater than 99%. Today, more than 4 million breast cancer survivors in the United States are living proof that awareness, screening, and advances in treatment make a life-changing difference." [nationalbr...cancer.org], [cancer.org] 

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. While this disease is often associated with women, it also affects men, families, and entire communities. 

As I sat down to write this month's blog, I found myself pausing to reflect on the profound impact breast cancer has had on my family over the past year. Truthfully, it took me some time to work through the grief before I could put these thoughts into words. 

This time last year, I unexpectedly lost two beautiful, vibrant family members to breast cancer. One of the hardest realities to grapple with was knowing that they chose not to share their diagnoses with many of the people who loved them and would have gladly walked alongside them, offering support, encouragement, and care. I often wonder whether more conversations and earlier interventions might have made a difference. 

At the same time, I was supporting another family member through surgery, chemotherapy, and infusion treatments. Because her cancer was detected early, she successfully completed treatment and is now on the other side of that journey. Witnessing these very different experiences reinforced a truth that cannot be emphasized enough: early detection saves lives. 

Over time, I came to peace with the fact that every person has the right to decide how much of their health journey they share and with whom they share it. Even so, Breast Cancer Awareness Month serves as an important reminder that no one should have to face this battle alone. 

As we recognize this month, let us remember the beautiful warriors who fought valiantly, honor those who are currently in the fight, and uplift those who are just beginning their journey. If you are facing a diagnosis, lean on your village. Allow trusted family members, friends, and supporters to provide encouragement, hope, strength, and love. 

And above all, remember this: you are not alone.